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You'll get through it Steve.

We should arrange a road trip down your way.

bit of a drive for you mate

[FletchCossie]

Thanks Si/Neil, when I get sorted we will all meet up at shows and stuff Hence Im doing my Esc Cos how I want it to try and get me out and about When the snow clears I will get Doctor's appointment and try seek therapy.

Ive got Neurology appintment on 30th December, which I think is the MRi scan I asked for

[Simon T]

About time there was some killing arranged on COD...

[FletchCossie]

I was on MW2 yesterday, but you were on Orange Ops

[Bosch Man]

Fletch PM me your number mate and i will call u.I may be able to offer some help?

[Simon T]

I was on MW2 yesterday, but you were on Orange Ops

yeah a few mates were online so i joined them.

[FletchCossie]

07732 872 122 Phil I'm walking to work in next 5 mins where it's apparently very busy so if I don't answer I'm not being rude it's cause I'm freezing in the cold or shouting at customer

[FletchCossie]

yeah a few mates were online so i joined them.

That's fair mate we need to organise a Cod night. I will borrow a copy on Orange Ops

[Bosch Man]

Will call u later mate.

[Simon T]

That's fair mate we need to organise a Cod night. I will borrow a copy on Orange Ops

Get it done, i'm kind of getting to like black ops, sure its not perfect but still comedy when online with mates.

[Mike Rainbird]

Steve,
Instead of getting stressed about things, be pro-active. As an example, tell your brother what needs doing and if he doesn't react to it, just dump the stuff outside where it is no longer a hinderance to you and forget about it - and then tell him what you have done and leave him with the responsibility of doing something about it. Anyone that is giving you grief or stressing you with comments like they are, HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM. Do not put yourself in situations where they can only compound your feelings. With regard to comments by people close to you that say these things (but mean well and aren't malicious with it), explain to them that even YOU know it is in your head, but them saying it isn't helping, and suggesting if they REALLY want to help you get over it, would they mind accompanying you on the occasions you feel that you really need someone with you. Explain to them that this would be the best help they could ever give and if they would do that for you, it would most likely HELP you bin it off. However, also explain that them saying what they are saying serves to only make you feel even more anxious and self conscious, as you realise that it is 90% in your mind, but that being told this is playing havoc with your nerves, which is leading to more attacks rather than less, and you need company, not having the obvious stated all the time.

If you struggle to communicate any of this to the people involved, why not just print this thread off and let them read it - they may have no idea how their comments are affecting you?

And tell your brother from me, that he shouldn't be such a cunt .

[Simon T]

If you struggle to communicate any of this to the people involved, why not just print this thread off and let them read it - they may have no idea how their comments are affecting you?

And tell your brother from me, that he shouldn't be such a cunt .

tell you what, that isn't a bad idea.

And if your brother is being an idiot, a swift kick to the bollocks will wake him up.

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mike speaks sense steve.as for your brother.he needs either telling whats what or cutting out mate,he will only make you worse matey
neither of us lot have met yet so maybe we should just organise a coming down to see you for sure mate.im up for it if si is.we have all been in the same situation so know what you are going through and will be more than understanding.


as for cod. wheres my invites you big gays? i tend not to go on any more as every one is on blackcocks and i dont really enjoying playing all the foreign billies

[Simon T]

blackcocks is where its at at the moment

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everyone moaned about it being shit,including some of my most hardcore cod mates,so i didnt buy it