Another pissing failure

[Sunnysidebb]

Ah well, 3 months of stress and worry, another £12k in costs and 4700 miles worth of driving and the IVF is a Big Fat Negative. What the fuck do you have to do start a family. You see all to many kids on TV and on the streets being dragged up by parents unfit to look after themselves let alone a child that it breaks our heart it really does
Wont be needing a family car then for a while.
Frank and Lorraine

[Rippers]

Gutted for you :-(

I take for granted how lucky we where to have our two

[Mark Barber]

god frank that must be heartbreaking really feel for you mate

[FletchCossie]

Gutted for you Frank Your right, too many council scrounging, no good parents out there, yet decent people who can't have kids

[bigholmes]

mate i really do feel for you. as i have a couple of mates who have gone and going through this same thing. some of them have had to stop just due to the disgusting amount these robbing bastards charge just to help the pepole who are desparate to be parents, but as soon as they stop they eventually do catch. nature is a crazy thing mate! all i can say is just dont give up hope as you may just catch just by having all the pressure taken off you now from not having to do test after test.
hope all works out for you mate as you sound like a great cuople.

[Sunnysidebb]

Cheers for the thoughts guys. Unfortunately, its impossible to conceive naturally. Lorraines Tube's were so badly knacked they have been removed.
Its good a Car forum can be so concerned for us both and we both appreciate the kind thoughts from you all. TBH all I want to do at the moment is be sick, just gutted totally.
Life must go on I suppose but for now we just want to hideaway and

[Ben Purnell]

very very sorry to hear this Frank, I just hope it doesn't grind you both down too much and you both can keep smiling even though it hurts.

Its only when someone posts something like this that makes you step back and think how lucky I am to have my two girls.

I wish you both all the best on what ever you decide the next steps are

[Turbo Lag]

Know how you feel Frank me and the wife had to go through a lot to get our kid, my wife had loads of miss carriages and then three eptopics .
We then went through with IVF and it failed first time which was heart braking but we decided to try again and it worked the second time.
Hope you have better luck in the Future.


Dave.

[COZZFATHER]

big frank just to lighten the mood as i know you and your mrs will be well upset you could always adopt me ,that way you can become a full member in red


one other thing...................someone i know says god loves a tryer and i bet theres someone out there thats had all the knockbacks and then one day its worked.

[Jay P]

Sorry to hear this Frank, I agree completely with the statement in your first post. I hope you both get what you want in the future.

[bigpower]

Frank,
Sad news that mate, really is but have you thought about adoption? As so you say so may unfit parents and so many babys needing loving families, you would be making such a difference by giving one a loving home!!

Just a thought

Regards

[Sunnysidebb]

big frank just to lighten the mood as i know you and your mrs will be well upset you could always adopt me ,that way you can become a full member in red


one other thing...................someone i know says god loves a tryer and i bet theres someone out there thats had all the knockbacks and then one day its worked.

Hi Karl, we'd adopt you anytime matey.
Must admit, I dont often loose interest in Cars but at the moment I just want to chuck up. Totally disinterested in just about everything. Just want to go to bed for an hour and pretend nothings happened.
As to the future, were not sure. The type of IVF Lorraine has includes immunology, ICSI with array CGH . Its just so expensive. We will have to have a think on it and see what happens.
We cant even adopt because B&B's are on the "Black List" for adoption.
Will catch up with you some time soon.

[georgie1]

gutted for ya m8


Me and sarah cant have kids but it not a problem to me as i have her and she has me

[Tore_TJ]

Sorry to hear this Frank The world has never been fair..

[Joe-Tait]

Sorry to hear this Frank, a hope you and the mrs can get through this in time